New York Times Article
by Francine Parnes
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March 24, 2007
Titled:
Life Coaching For The Soul
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White Hawk Spirit Coaching, LLC;
Bi-monthly Ezine:
June-July 2006;Vol.I, Issue 1

Welcome everyone! And many thanks for subscribing to my Ezine. I'm honored that you've visited my site and hope you'll find the contents of each issue to be informative, provocative and inspirational. So, without further ado, let me introduce you to the contents of this issue.

The following, offered for meditation and contemplation, is a quote from the preface of C.S. Lewis's Mere Christianity:

"I hope no reader will suppose that 'mere' Christianity is here put forward as an alternative to the creeds of the existing communions....It is more like a hall out of which doors open into several rooms. If I can bring anyone in to that hall I shall have done what I attempted. But it is in the rooms, not in the hall, that there are fires and chairs and meals. The hall is a place to wait in, a place from which to try the various doors, not a place to live in. For that purpose the worst of the rooms (whichever that may be) is, I think, preferable. It is true that some people may find they have to wait in the hall for a considerable time, while others feel certain almost at once which door they must knock at. I do not know why there is this difference, but I am sure God keeps no one waiting unless He [sic] sees that it is good for him [sic] to wait. When you do get into your room you will find that the long wait has done you some kind of good which you would not have had otherwise. But you must regard it as waiting, not as camping. You must keep on praying for light; and, of course, even in the hall, you must begin trying to obey the rules which are common to the whole house. And above all you must be asking which door is the true one; not which pleases you best by its paint and paneling. In plain language, the question should never be : 'Do I like that kind of service?' but "Are these doctrines true: Is holiness here? Does my conscience move towards this? Is my reluctance to knock at this door due to my pride, or my mere taste, or my personal dislike of this particular door-keeper?'

When you have reached your own room, be kind to those who have chosen different doors and to those who are still in the hall. If they are wrong they need your prayers all the more; and if they are your enemies, then you are under orders to pray for them. That is one of the rules common to the whole house."

My challenge to all of you this month after reading this passage is to contemplatively ask yourselves (and in the spirit of true ecumenism, feel free to substitute any religion or spiritual tradition in place of Christianity, pace Lewis):

  • What part(s) of this passage resonate most deeply within me?
  • What constitutes a path toward Truth for me?
  • What does "holiness" look like?
  • Am I ready to enter the hall?
  • Am I in the hall or in one of the rooms?
  • Have I peered into several rooms, but not committed to staying in any particular one?
  • Am I at peace with my choice(s)?
  • Do I need some additional direction?
  • Or have I fearfully run away from the house altogether?
  • Perhaps I never considered entering the house, waiting in the hall or knocking at any of the doors?
  • Am I ready to now or am I patiently waiting?
  • Is there an obstacle(s) in my path preventing me from making the journey to the house, into the hall or into a room or two or three?
  • If so, what is it?
  • What constitutes the "wrong" door, and what does "wrong" mean to me?
  • Is "wrong" objective or subjective?

As a fellow pilgrim, I wish you peace and success on your Path to finding the answers. I am committed to facilitating this any way that I can. Remember, the joy is in the journey!

WEBSITE(S) OF INTEREST:
The Jefferson Center for Religion and Philosophy: http://www.thejeffcenter.org

UPCOMING EVENTS:
Sometime in mid to late August I will be facilitating an hour long round-table discussion via telebridge line on the topic: "Naming and Overcoming Spiritual Obstacles in an Age of Uncertainty". There will be 30 spaces available and admission is free (other than the long distance charges you may incur depending on your calling plan). Please check my Website ( http://www.whitehawkspiritcoaching.com ) in July to enroll. I look forward to "seeing" you there!

RECOMMENDED READING:
John Shelby Spong, Why Christianity Must Change Or Die: A Bishop Speaks to Believers in Exile, HarperSanFrancisco, 1998.
(My thumbnail review: "Fasten your seat belts, it's going to be a bumpy night!" A highly informed page-turner...not for the faint of heart, but for those seeking a critically and intellectually informed faith.)
______________, A New Christianity for a New World: Why Traditional Faith Is Dying and How a New Faith Is Being Born, HarperSanFrancisco, 2001.

(My thumbnail review: A deeply compelling, moving and resounding sequel to the aforementioned book...the reader may never perceive the world (or its religions/faith traditions) in quite the same way again, which is the author's entire thesis..."we press on...")

Until next time, I wish you each of you peace that passes all understanding. Be strong. Stand firm. And keep asking questions.

"Seek and you will find."

Warmly,
Gavin

Gavin W. Young, Jr., M.A., M.A.P.M., C.T.A.C.; Founder and CEO (Creative Executive Officer): Whitehawk Spirit Coaching, LLC


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